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“Thank you for doing that.” He said because I’d shoveled his walk.

“No big deal.”

“It is a big deal when you can’t do it yourself.”

I retreated to the garage to get the recycle and was swept up in a wave of emotion as I stood there crying in the cold. “Thank you, thank you, thank you.” On a loop in my head.

Thank me? No. Thank you. Here I am at a home away from home that feels so comforting to me, I want to take a nap every time I visit and plunk down on the couch for a second. You helped make it that way.

It felt like home from the beginning, when your family pulled me from the junk heap 23 years ago. When I had cancer myself and was utterly rudderless.  You dusted me off, stood me on my feet and were my will when my will was gone.

You took me in, with no questions asked, when my own dad, too scarred by his own history, told me: “We all have to die someday.”

Thanks for not getting (too) pissed when I smashed up your Toyota (just like a real son might do).

Thanks for using your skills as a handy man to constantly help us get and keep a foot hold.

Thanks for being my stand in dad, at my wedding, when my own disqualified himself with his racist comments and lack of “give a shit”.

Thank you for the hours and hours you put in on the bed frame, armoire and nightstands that you gave as wedding presents. These are the last things I have looked at every night for the past 18 years.

“Thank you” covers 1% of it, Dad, but it’s all I have.

You are sick now and no one will ever fill the void you are leaving as you go.  If I can see what I’m doing, I think I’ll go shovel again.

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Cross Town

Boardman

Had a good home,
City by the bays.
Couldn’t make ends meet,
Had to move away.

Stuck in rut,
Out here on the road.
Feeling down,
Feeling low.

Started thinking about

A west wind blowing,
The Boardman flowing,
On a sweet, summer day.

The cherries growing,
Smiling faces glowing,
Showing me the way.

Traverse Town.
Please take me home.
To Traverse Town.
Never more to roam.

Winter time
Was never the reason.
Cause Lord knows
I’d be freezing.

Come summer time,
Joy and mirth.
Summers there:
Heaven on earth.

Still thinking about

A west wind blowing,
The Boardman flowing,
On a sweet, summer day.

The cherries growing,
Smiling faces glowing,
Showing me the way.

Traverse Town.
Please take me home.
To Traverse Town.
Never more to roam.

“The Great Crossing
Marquette did denote.
As the waves were tossing
His birch bark boat.

But the waves don’t seem
That rough to me.
And in my dreams
And memories I see…

A west wind blowing,
The Boardman flowing,
On a sweet, summer day.

The cherries growing,
Smiling faces glowing,
Showing me the way.

Traverse Town.
Please take me home.
To Traverse Town.
Never more to roam.